Friday, April 16, 2010

365 Lessons-Lesson 106: Commune with Nature


In nature's presence I am anonymous. I become part of the symphony of all that is. I blend in with what's around me and am one with it. A bumble bee, a fern, sparkles in the sand, the caw of a seagull, the smell of salt water from the Sound, my husband's face.

I went to Discovery Park today with my husband. The Pacific Northwest is gorgeous this time of year. Seattle is a city that lives in harmony with nature. I'm in awe of the trees right here where I live. They tower above me like guardians of the land. I dissolve in their presence.

We found a make shift fort and decided to take a rest on the logs there. I closed my eyes and could hear the sound of the waves, taste the salt in the air, smell the ocean, feel the sand caressing the spaces between my fingers. This sand seemed to hug my body in it's warmth.

After strolling on the beach for what seemed like hours, we headed off on one of the many trails through the trees. The first trail had a rain forest feeling. I felt like a monkey might swing down from a vine at any moment, but there are no monkeys in these parts.

There are harbor seals, however. The mothers leave their baby seals on the shore while they hunt for food. There's even a sign at the park warning visitors to leave nature alone, especially the baby seals.


We continued through the canopy of trees up endless stairs. It was quite a climb up from the shore.
We kept walking until we reached a dense forest full of cedar and pine. The trees towered over us.

And this is all right in Seattle. It's unbelievable to me. I can't wait to come back in July when all the berries are out. In this park, and all over Washington, we enjoy salmon berries, huckleberries, thimble berries and blackberries.

But I know we'll be back much sooner than that. After all, we don't have to go far to experience nature, it's all around us.

One Mouth Open, One Mouth Shut

I don't know what it is about talking about my work, I just don't do it anymore. I joke with other writers about getting me an agent, but they don't get the joke. I don't want one. I want to write. So I do. I am a creator and that has been my objective. I made the hard choice, not the easy one....to chase the craft and not the dollars. There are plenty of best sellers out there that I would use to build a fire. They marketed and sold their work and did the book signings. It was their way, not mine. I realized that I had built up a collection of followers, close to 2000 on a social network site, and it got a little weird for me. Weird is a kind word for it. One day I looked at the page and I committed fan-tracide. I killed the page because it no longer was the place of art and collaboration I wanted it to be. I had written articles for an international fashion mag, had my own column, and in short it seemed to be everything I wanted. Ladies and gentlemen, it was all an illusion.

I vowed never again. I had a taste of the obsession of fame, the requests to do book signings, and even the cyber stalking, and I put an end to it all. That was off of one book of poetry. Sounds pretty strange, doesn't it? I had to go off of the radar to do the work I want to do. It involves people, life and the best, real collaboration. When I was in Daegu, South Korea, a wonderful poetress, name Lena Vanelslander, from Belgium and I began an incredible collaboration. The kind we both hungered for, the kind that is absent of competition and worries about things like ego and money...just to create art.

One of Lena's dreams was to publish. I smiled and wrote to her, that we could make it happen if she just trusted and believed. It seems looking back, that at any point the project could have derailed if an ounce of fear entered the picture. There were starts and stops. I hated the original cover design by the publisher and provided them a picture I snapped in South Korea. There was a bumpy road with our critiques of the editing process back in the United States, but despite all of the struggles, a work was published without two writers ever meeting each other. We just trusted in our art and in each other. That, my friends, is the magic of creation. Nothing beats the feeling.

The best part about this work was the friendship we forged together. An article was recently published in Her Circle about this venture. Really, it was more a a literary adventure. However, the main reason I am writing this post to encourage you in your writing pursuits to not chase the money. Chase your art. Chase what it feels like to touch one life. Try to write about what is close to your heart and don't prostitute your work.

I think the world is beginning to see how much security is an illusion right now. To me, the highest form of security are friends. The greatest value in my life is people. Whenever money becomes the focus, you get what Hollywood is churning out...profit driven entertainment. I don't write for profit, and some of my work has cost me. It's all in the journey.

For whatever reason you write, do it with your whole heart, without an eye on the bottom line, without chasing after fame. Well, even if you are chasing after those things...if you are, write one hell of a story that isn't what the industry pushes out there on us all.

Be the original that everyone copies.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Info Overload!!!!


'Love never fails. But where there are prophesies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge it will pass away.'
1 Corinthians 13:8

Sometimes life can become very confusing!

Knowledge does not set you free, it gives you a headache!

There's an advert for an Internet search engine which shows someone asking for directions. The person starts of normally giving the information, then carries on giving random information in a chaotic way - the mind is in overload!

It is like when you Google something and you are presented with a list of random answers, interesting but not what you where looking for, and very easily distracting from what you where doing.

I love to learn!

My mind craves knowledge, I love History, Math, esoteric knowledge, Religion, culture. You name it I am interested in it. This is not bad in itself but sometimes this can lead you astray from the one simple truth - LOVE!

'Love is patient, Love is kind, It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not proud.' 1 Corinthians 13:4

All the knowledge in the world (and not in the world) is meaningless without Love.

So what do we do with an inquisitive mind?

We learn to see the love in all situations; all learnings; all teachings.

If God is Love, then all that God made is Love!

The equation of Love is in the architecture of Life; each sequence of events can be seen as a Mathematical equation, the answer being - LOVE!

So, when we feel an info overload and we become a little confused;

Stop!
Breath!
Connect back to LOVE!
This is what matters the most.

'And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.' 1 Corinthians 13:13

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Living Well

What does living well mean?

Most people start quoting scriptures when answering that question. Being moral, doing right by others, thanking the Father, Son and Holy Ghost.

You know my views on religion, so needless to say I don't subscribe to a lot of what is "preached." But I do think that as we mature, all of us find our own "guiding light."

Here's how I think all of us can live well (inspired in part from a talk by John Haughey):

  • Be attentive to your experience -- Every person's experience is unique. It is shaped by their upbringing, their gender, their age, their position in life at that given point, their emotional and physical state, their belief systems. Even though two people may be present in the same moment at the same time, what they experience will be different. Knowing that your experience of everything around you is unique to you can be enlightening, empowering, and humbling.

  • Be intelligent -- Don't be too fast to judge. Learn from people that have preceded you and peers that inform you. Teach yourself to learn. To not just absorb and react, but to think and choose well. Engage your mental faculties; stretch your brain.

  • Be reasonable -- Don't run with your first hunch. Use your reasoning powers to test your judgment. Your ideas should be able to stand for themselves in social discourse. Think objectively. Rationally. Realistically. Wholistically.

  • Be responsible -- For yourself. And be answerable to yourself. At the end of the day you should be able to sleep with a clean conscience. A clear mind.

  • Be thoughtful -- We think, therefore we are. Reflect. Analyze. Assess.

Know yourself. The environment you are in. The people you are with.


Believe. In something.


Love your life.


Laugh heartily.


It doesn't matter how long you live. What matters is how well you live your life.


Also posted on my blog.

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Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Getting involved and making a difference.


If you want to make a shift in consciousness, you can do it simply by working on shifting from within. If you want to change the world, you can do it by changing your own world living in love and integrity within your own sphere of personal relationships.

If you want to get involved in a direct way in your community then start there: in your community. You can begin at your children’s school, or get involved with a local volunteer group, or get involved with local politics. You can also get involved with politics on a larger scale through the internet, writing letters to the editor of your local newspaper, signing or beginning petitions, emailing, writing letters, or telephoning your local and state representatives, or start your own campaign and run for office.

There are many ways to get involved now that there are so many connections through the internet, but I implore you, if you decide you want to get directly involved, above anything, please get yourself informed and educated about our system of government. History, ethics, and economics are also good areas in which to hone your skills and develop your knowledge. Most importantly though is to have your facts straight.

We have enough attractive charismatic celebrities in our culture mucking things up, what we really need are those who have a sincere desire to contribute in meaningful ways. As I stated, this can be accomplished simply by attending to your own consciousness and your own personal relationships. It really does all begin with a single individual.

But there are plenty of areas you can get yourself informed with all of the technology we have and research material available at the stroke of the key or the click of the mouse. Be discerning in your quest to do your research; there are fact checking sites like Snopes.com and factcheck.org that are impartial sites that offer up the facts and dispel myths.

One group that has sprung up, calling themselves The Coffee Party, I have been following with interest. I’m not directly associated with them, though I have joined their Facebook group and I am following their activity, so far I am impressed that they are at least committed to being civil in their discourse and they are committed to informing and educating themselves. This I think is a great start and quite refreshing.

I have been following the political landscape over the past couple of years with keen interest because I felt I was seeing an energy in the people of this country signaling that we are ready for change and ready to do what it takes to create a greater shift than we have seen for a long time. I’m not sure how true this is but I am willing to share here my observations and what I have gleaned from my research just in case.

On Monday, I am going to share some differing philosophies.

Monday, April 12, 2010

365 Lessons-Lesson 102: Live your Life with the Purpose of Doing Good for Yourself and Others

The Power of Purpose: Living Well by Doing Good Cover

The more you focus on helping others, the more you will succeed in reaching your own goals. Helping others is the most direct and effective way to reach your goals in your personal relationships, at work, and in your community. There is no better or more rewarding purpose you can find each day, and no more practical tool for getting where you want to go.

-Peter S. Temes

My husband likes to get movies and books from the library. They are free, so why not? He rides his bike down to a branch of the Seattle Public Library near our house and loads up. The other day he brought home the book The Power of Purpose: Living Well by Doing Good by Peter S. Temes.

I haven't read the entire book, but it's one of those books you can pick up and flip to a particular chapter of interest and get so much out of it. In the preface, the writer talks about landing a job at Harvard University as a junior professor. He was so happy to be working there. The prestige of it all! But his salary as a junior professor at the time barely covered what was needed for his family.

He started thinking about all the things he wouldn't get to do with his daughters. It was hard to make ends meet. He decided to give up his prestigious title and do business consulting. He set a goal to make one million dollars in three years. This may seem a bit lofty to most people, but he was determined. He put all his business skills to use and started consulting businesses like Goldman Sachs, Citicorp and Ernest and Young.

Within three years, he had well over a million dollars, just like he said he would. He then put his next plan into action. He got rid of all his clients.

Now you might be saying, "What?" or "Why did he do that?"

Because all along he only wanted to make money for two reasons: to help his family and to help other people.

He devoted the rest of his time to teaching, writing and nonprofit work.

I'm am amazed by this book. It agrees so much with what I have always thought. That we are all connected and when we help each other, we help ourselves. Of course, if we are not good ourselves, it will be very difficult to help others.

First we have to make ourselves very strong. We have to devote all our time to building up a healthy body, mind and spirit. Once we are strong, there is no end to what we can do for this world.

Step by step, if you are committed to first taking care of yourself, you will eventually build up enough strength to expand the energy you have outward.

If you find yourself right now in an unhealthy situation, what are the steps you can take to make yourself strong? They don't have to be big steps, just steps. It's helpful if you can make these steps each day.

If you understand that by making yourself happy and healthy, others will see this and see a change in you and will want to be good too. You are setting a great example for others. Just by helping yourself, you are helping all those around you.

Once you are strong enough and you feel happy where you are in your body, mind, spirit, work and relationships, you can start by generating this energy outward to all those around you. You will start to find opportunities to help others without even looking for them. If your reasons behind your goals are to help yourself and help others in a positive way, than you will be successful.

Just this very thought is success in itself. You are well on your way!!!!

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Mystery Island

Somehow, in the middle of this wide, landlocked plain, we have made our way to a tropical island.
An Italian volunteer named David is visiting the Thai village where I teach English, and he has come with Pen, Kanjana and I in search of this strange little island. I’m on the back of Pen’s motorcycle and David is riding with Kanjana. We’re tearing along back roads, surrounded by acres of rice paddies. We’re like ants struggling to cross vast, green tracts of earth. Pen and Kanjana have both been trying to explain the significance of the island to me, and I am struggling to understand their Issan-laced Thai as they shout over the sound of motorcycle engines and wind. David, meanwhile, is shouting to me in his Italian-accented English. I’m shouting back to him, in American-accented English, passing along whatever spotty information I can glean about this elusive island we are racing toward.
Kanjana and Pen shout a mile a minute over the wind and flood me with tantalizing, incomprehensible details about the mysterious island. David says to me, “What did they say?”
I reply thoughtfully: “I have no idea. Something about an island.”
Pen steers her motorcycle off the road and we putt-putt to a stop. Ahead of us is a small wooden bridge, which we’ll cross on foot. And I see that all that they have been shouting about is true: In the midst of this barren plain sits an oasis, floating like a dream. We dismount the motorcycles at the edge of a serene green lake. In the middle of the lake is tethered a compact little island, every square inch of it bristling with towering palm trees. The palm trees that cloak the island are unique, Pen and Kanjana explain. They grow only here, on this small island, in the middle of this desert, in the middle of nowhere.
“This is the only place these trees can be found,” Pen insists. “They won’t grow anywhere else. They have tried to transplant them elsewhere, but they failed.”
The impossibly tall trees look thick and ancient and strange, nothing like the youthful, slender coconut trees I am used to seeing scattered gracefully across the rice paddies. What they are trying to tell me, I realize, is that this island is a mystery. These trees are a miracle. Why does this thicket of trees grow only here and nowhere else on earth? Of course, I have no way of verifying the fact that the trees grow nowhere else. It seems a little suspect, but I cheerfully agree with them and enter the realm of the mystical.We leave the motorcycles in the parking lot. We cross the footbridge whose handrails on both sides, I notice, are a long, unfurled serpent complete with scales. But serpent handrails are not an uncommon sight in Thailand when leading to temples. The naga (which I believe was a 7-headed cobra) is widely revered for sheltering the Buddha while he meditated on his way to enlightenment.
Pen lowers her voice and passes on another mysterious bit: A story about a Thai man who was hired to show outdoor movies on the island all night long. The crowd who gathered to watch the movie was silent and odd. The man showing the movies had to be out by 4 a.m., he was warned, or he might never leave the island. When the man went to leave the island, he had trouble finding his way out. He eventually made it off the island, and the strangely silent movie fans, he learned afterward, were ghosts. I’ve heard many American versions of the encounter with the stranger who turns out to be a ghost, but I like this Thai twist on it.
We step onto the island and instantly sink into hushed, dense forest. The light above us filters weakly down. A Buddhist monk slips silently past us, and Pen, the lone Buddhist among us Christians, leads us reverently along a twisting path deep into the trees. At the heart of the island pulses a silent spring. Here is the heart of the mystery. The four of us lean over the deep, green pool and peer in. The water is murky, and the well is, perhaps, bottomless. I can’t be sure, but I am looking for the giant snake that dwells therein. In Buddhism, of course, snakes don’t have the sullied reputation that they have in Christianity. In fact, they often represent the sacred. A giant, sacred snake dwells in this pool, and there is a whole, elaborate story about how it got here. Pen is unraveling the tale and I’m struggling desperately to understand her Thai. I hate the way the details escape me. Who knows what I’m missing?
But I understand this much: This is why the miraculous trees thrive in this arid plain. And this is why the water in this well contains curative powers. Because of the special, sacred snake coiled down below. Pen leans forward and cups some of the water in her hands. She drinks it deeply, and anoints her own head as well. She urges us to do the same. But I can’t help it: I’m not afraid of the snake—I’m afraid of the murky water. Pen’s immune system is up to the challenge of local water, but mine is not. Maybe the waters really are mystical. But I am not Buddhist or even Thai. So will these opaque waters heal me or afflict me? One part of me is intrigued by this spooky spring, and the strange story, and the unsettling possibilities that this whispering island contains. But I am also feeling intensely practical, so I decline to drink.
Long after leaving the tiny island and the village, I learn (or confirm) the details. We had visited Wat Kham Chanot วัดคำชะโนด. It’s considered an “entrance to the water world”, or maybe the underworld--the dwelling place of a sacred serpent. The monks inhabiting the island are devoted to revering the special serpent, and the locals do indeed consider the area sacred. My memory of that day is that almost no one else was around except a stray monk or two. The flat rice paddies surrounding the island were also empty. There was indeed something otherworldly in the air, although maybe the moody atmosphere was due to the dense forest and deep well.
Some say the serpent has a “hiding place” on the island. On that day, Pen and Kanjana clearly believed the snake was hiding at the bottom of the well. Or was the well the entrance to the underworld? No matter—I comprehended their Thai well enough to get the picture, and the eerie locale is still with me to this day. This post also appears on my blog Strange Islands.