I am a profoundly unhappy person. It is true and I cannot help it. I try to walk through life counting my blessings and holding to everything I can, no matter how feeble, to help me get by. It is one step at a time, it is grudingly ...I am who I am. Of course I would've wanted to be another person, to live another life but I canot change the facts, no matter how much I try. So, instead of chasing the windmills I have to accept my fate. I know I made a lot of mistakes in life, at least I tried each and every time to go against fate and I failed and I have been paying since. No point to dwell in the past, though. It is done and finished. Now, I have to concentrate on the future. To take my unhappiness and twist it make it work for me the way happiness and contentment work for others. I will do it even if it will be the last thing I'm doing...
Of course I wanted to have a career, a loving husband, a supporting family and community, beauty, wealth and so on. But I don't have them. And what I had, I lost because of my naivete or stupidity.I have only my stuborness and my fantasy, my children, my books, my dreams and God. And my Armageddon, the last battle, my swan song, my writing. And these are the things I cling to with all my strength. Because they are only mine and their doing and un-doing depend only on me. No other.
So I'll take my feelings and my tears and my pain and weave them with the love for God and for my children and the outcome will me my making and only mine. And then I will be able to say "Nothing can hurt me now because I've been hurt so much I made my failure my armor and dissapoinment my sword".
My swan song, verses - my bitterness, melody - my loneliness. I take them all and disolve them in my being. I accept who I am and what I've done. And hold my head high...
Monday, March 29, 2010
Without love, there is no hope.
Without love, there is no joy.
Without love, there is no solution.
Without love, there is no future.
You may give money.
You may give 'stuff'.
You may talk about love.
But without having love,
They are empty gestures.
Empty like the heart that gives -
Out of duty,
Out of guilt,
Out of confusion.
You will see problem,
Only love can heal.
Forgiving and true.
Love is the only way!
Look at your relationships in this way,
look at your situations today
Where am I not loving?
Do not look at him or her to blame.
Only look at them to see the reflection,
of who you are
Are they unhappy?
Are they sad?
Are they mad?
What is it in YOU that is making you project unhappiness?
What is it in YOU that is making you project sadness?
What is it in YOU that is making you project madness?
Remember, Love is the only way!
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